Dalam relationshio ni respect is important, but communication is the real deal. Without it, the relationship wont work out well. VETO is another word yang tak patut wujud dalam sesuatu relationship, unless u are a dictactor.. I would keep my mouth shut.
As i said, communication is vital. So, communicate la. Bercakap kasar & menegking2 tu yes, it is a kind of communication juga tapi more to communication gone wrong oke! Komunikasi ni bukan just by saying it.. we can use other mean like writing, body language or show it dengan cara2 yang abstract macam bawa g makan2, bagi kad, bagi hadiah whatever. Orang kata silence is golden. No way man! Pada yang bujang tu esp pompuan, lelaki yang tak banyak cakap ni is good tapi rasanya lebih banyak yang no good. But, you wouldnt know, would you? Guys ni kadang2 keep quiet to avoid conflict, yelah api dengan api kompem takde sapa selamat tapi jangan baik hati sangat fikir macam tu kay girls sebab they also keep quiet sebab they also have their own agendas. They dont want to let go of you yet they have another thing thing going on at your back.