Sunday 28 July 2013

Rumah Bertangga

Hidup berumahtangga ni memang satu cabaran sebenarnya.. Hohoho. Bukan, ahkak tak do pun gaduh2 manja ngan c Chemba sampai tetiba la pulak tersentuh hati nak berstory mory pasal alam rumah tangga ni kannnn. I was just wondering, some pasangan ni boleh depa bergaduh sampai tinggi suara to their spouse for reason yang kecik lagi bodo or misunderstanding jek. Yang tu tak menghairankan sangat aktuali, yang hairan bila tak lama lepas tu both of them boleh seolah2 dah lupa apa yang terjadi as of nothing happened. Yah.. Mungkin memendam rasa sakit dalam hati or maybe they just dont mind being treated that way tapi pada ahkak, tabah sungguh la orang2 ini. If it were me, i dont think i can take it. Baru sikit je, i started thinking of separation. Hairan la memang ahkak tengok. Dimana la agaknya rasa hormat ni depa dah campak.

Dalam relationshio ni respect is important, but communication is the real deal. Without it, the relationship wont work out well. VETO is another word yang tak patut wujud dalam sesuatu relationship, unless u are a dictactor.. I would keep my mouth shut.

As i said, communication is vital. So, communicate la. Bercakap kasar & menegking2 tu yes, it is a kind of communication juga tapi more to communication gone wrong oke! Komunikasi ni bukan just by saying it.. we can use other mean like writing, body language or show it dengan cara2 yang abstract macam bawa g makan2, bagi kad, bagi hadiah whatever. Orang kata silence is golden. No way man! Pada yang bujang tu esp pompuan, lelaki yang tak banyak cakap ni is good tapi rasanya lebih banyak yang no good. But, you wouldnt know, would you? Guys ni kadang2 keep quiet to avoid conflict, yelah api dengan api kompem takde sapa selamat tapi jangan baik hati sangat fikir macam tu kay girls sebab they also keep quiet sebab they also have their own agendas. They dont want to let go of you yet they have another thing thing going on at your back.