Lain anak lain tahap perkembangan dia. My daughter pada aku yes, tahap perkembangan dia in term of speech dan ability to understand what we are saying memang sedikit perlahan. She is only able to speak when she was three while some kids able to do it much earlier even before 2 y.o. So I got problems untuk bagi dia arahan or to potty train her. Pada awalnya quite alarming juga. I worried that she is autistic. Alhamdulillah paed said she is not. Masa tu she was able to speak tapi in english je. BM memang sepatah pun dia tak pandai sebut. Tapi she is faster dalam perkara lain like able to read A to Z and numbers 1 - 10 before she was 2, even before she is able to speak. She was able to say the alphabets like she can read already. I think she has a very good memory because I never thought her the ABCs and numbers.. she got it from watching tv and ipad. She is able to remember kat mana ada playground, or kat mana ada her favorite food after the 1st time I bought her there. Sekali ajar, she was able to recognize alif to jim.. takat tu je sebab adih dia hangat-hangat tahi ayam ajar iqra’.. haha
Now at 4 and almost a half, she dah mula pandai cakap Melayu. If she is able to say the words, her pronounciation was good tapi those yang di tak reti sebut she just mumbled. Her english is still better than BM. She dah faham most of arahan yang diberi. The only problem I have now is to potty train her.
I think we should not compare our kids to others and vice versa. Baik la we all berdoa semoga anak-anak kita membesar jadi orang berguna, yang menyunbabg kepada agama dan negara.
